So I thought I got it with the heat mod posted above - no, issues persist. I too replaced the relays the OP DHL suggested - Fujitsu SW-9-W-K, all 28 of them. I just desoldered the old and put in new, no sockets. The job was easy enough, took a little bit of time but problem completely gone - in fact, these Fujitsu are faster and quieter, Japanese made v. Chinese and I think it's set.
Side note, I started replacing some caps while in there - and what do you know, more cheap parts.. The main filter caps were just cooked, and the others majority non-polar appear very low grade, but odd in physical size, one has to be creative to replace and I wasn't able to get them all. The main filter caps were starting to bulge on mine, those are probably a must do maintenance item.
Nice work DHL for posting these fixes.