Sgr, pull my old OPs that considered a very similar problem, in some ways even worse than what you have. I used to own a Ref 3 and now a Ref 5. A fellow by the name of Tom Tutay built a custom impedance buffer for me.
Admittedly, it is principally for the Ref 3/5's Main #2 output that powers my sub, not my main outputs. I would call Tom and see if he can custom build something for you. My only concern is that inserting an artifact into your main signal path may cause a different set of problems. But do give Tom a call. He is top drawer. His number is listed on my OPs.
Admittedly, it is principally for the Ref 3/5's Main #2 output that powers my sub, not my main outputs. I would call Tom and see if he can custom build something for you. My only concern is that inserting an artifact into your main signal path may cause a different set of problems. But do give Tom a call. He is top drawer. His number is listed on my OPs.