recommendation for a high end analog system


I never had an analog system until last month. I bought a 1989 SOTA TT with vacuum/Sumiko MMT arm/Dennon 103R retyped with elliptical/sapphire cantilever. My phono is Kitsune MK5 WBT that is amplified by Don Sach 2 tube preamp and Pass X350.5. My speaker are Sound Lab M545 ESL. The TT has been very   well maintained despite its age. It sounded very good until I heard my friend's system which has the same TT but with Lyra Skala cartridge and first generation Triplanar arm (Spectral pre/amp). His sounded noticeably clearer and fuller. What is the best way to get a noticeable improvement in my system without breaking the bank (or before I have to squint to hear the improvement). I would love to hear some wisdom from analog-philes.
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yes, already optimized impedance and gain. If I wanted to change the tone arm on my SOTA, how would I even do that? I think SOTA has a limited arm choices.
May also want to check, double-check, and try different Impedance and gain settings on your phono pre to make sure you are getting the most from your 103. But, you may have already done that.
My friend's system is Spectral DMC30, DMA250 with Quad 2912 speakers (all MIT cables). Actually I haven't decided on my budget, but I want to get an idea of what is available.
Well, you have already started to figure out where to start, and as a SOTA owner myself, I would stick with that. As you say, your friend has the same, and his rig sounds better. So….

I believe your arm is basically a Jelco, perhaps a 750, rebranded by Sumiko. That isn’t a bad arm, at least I doubt it is the weakest point. Which points to your cartridge, and/or phono preamp, as the two pieces I would start to look at upgrading first. Or, the cart and arm, if you like your phono pre.

No doubt his Triplaner is a better arm, but so is his cartridge, and that is personally where I would start. The 103 seems to have a great following, but it isn’t a Lyra. That was a $5,000 cart (still sell in 1.5-3k range used today). Carts do make a significant difference, it’s up to you to figure out how much you want to spend to get the same/similar sound. I would start with the cart first, then, a toss-up between the arm and preamp, but I think a preamp could make a more immediate impact.
Welcome to the audio hobby!  
What is ‘breaking the bank’ and can you share the amp and speaker details you are comparing your system sound too?