I did finally, just recently. The recently closed thread "crazy crazy crazy" we were discussing a VERY important topic. Some didn't see it that way, their choice/opinion, freedom of speech. Well, a long standing member here, whom I've never crossed posting paths with, and not even participating in that thread, sent me a PM insulting a small Bible quote. (Clay and Iron). No big deal. Then PM'd me again directly insulting me. I replied: Your comments are not useful nor are they welcome". With that he sent an even nastier one. HA! If these examples can't get along civilly in our small Audio world, how will they work together with others in our real world when we NEED TO STICK TOGETHER?? I hope "roberttcan" see's this. HA! I take these people in full stride.
RE: the question: ":Why do forum interactions become contentious". . .
I've just had a very unexpected and very unpleasant PM from a forum participant.
He'd been suggesting I buy a certain component and I told him politely that I didn't visualize that particular purchase fitting in with my long-range plans.
His response was to accuse me of wasting everyone's time and to call me an "effing idiot" (except he spelled "effing" correctly).
The great majority of interactions I've had here have been very enjoyable and recent input from
more experienced forum members has helped greatly in clarifying my plan for the next upgrade cycle.
The thread on lesser-know Jazz has been great-- lots of participation and lots of terrific suggestions.
Nevertheless, I've decided to take a break.
Best regards,
Stuartk
He'd been suggesting I buy a certain component and I told him politely that I didn't visualize that particular purchase fitting in with my long-range plans.
His response was to accuse me of wasting everyone's time and to call me an "effing idiot" (except he spelled "effing" correctly).
The great majority of interactions I've had here have been very enjoyable and recent input from
more experienced forum members has helped greatly in clarifying my plan for the next upgrade cycle.
The thread on lesser-know Jazz has been great-- lots of participation and lots of terrific suggestions.
Nevertheless, I've decided to take a break.
Best regards,
Stuartk