Howard
I feel your pain. I HATE trying cables. If I may say; It doesn't seem as though you've found 'the' cable for your system yet. (Is it too late to return the cables you now have?) You like some aspects of both cables, yet you feel as though you have to compromise. It's enough to make you wonder if you're missing something. I know I find myself wondering that. I know I also wonder, how far up the $$ ladder I have to climb to find "The" cable. I've given up for a while. Right now, I think what i have, is a pretty good compromise - for me.
My rules for me:
I will not buy new cables without a 100% return policy - minus shipping, of course. If there is a cable that i want to try, but the mfgr. has a flawed return policy - I just have to be patient, and wait for the particular cables, to show up used here on A'gon. This way, the dollar pain won't be quite as great, as when anything new is bought. Sorry I'm not offering much help. But, I really do feel your pain. Hope you can find 'the' cable soon.
best
paul