I would look at a Pass Labs XP-15 demo from Reno Hifi for approximately $2700. It has plenty of gain for your application and meets all of your requirements.
Phono Preamp Suggestions
Looking for a phono stage that will work with a Benz Micro low output Ruby 3 cartridge. I require balanced outputs and a volume control. Budget is less than $3,000, new or used. Also willing to consider full function preamps which meet the requirements. Any suggestions or recommendation will be greatly appreciated.