I never asked for an address if I had one, listed, for any form of double-checking. But I always googled it to make sure the package was deliverable. I wouldn’t ship something expensive to an apartment building with 60 units without a front desk.
I don’t think it’s a scam because it would be a stupid scam.
I also think that taking delivery of a package not addressed to you is a felony (taking, opening, keeping).