maybe one reason for our different thought is, that you use
tubes in your system and my rig is purely silicone based ;-)
I had the case that an older and worn record sounded better with
a sharp stylus cartridge. But it was more an exception than the
rule looking only for the stylus. The vice versa case happened as
often.
But it seems we have some parallels as well. I sold my ZYX cartridges
as well and today my favourite carts are a DS Audio and a SPU Synergy.