The real reason so many wives hate their husband’s sound system is that they want the man’s attention focussed on them. This is the central issue. It will never be admitted but that is it. The never admitting stems from the always never admitted goal that the man serves the woman’s interest and never vica versa. The woman is sensible enough to understand that to break a man’s spirit is to drive him away. So to preserve the fantasy that he is important, the woman plays The Game that the man is the ’driver of the chariot’. No he has the reins in his hands. The driver of the chariot is the one saying ’go this way’, ’turn here’, ’get rid of those maggies’, 'I don't like that friend of yours','No you're not doing that anymore'.
Think you are driving the chariot? Attempt to take over the role of who calls the shots. Try it! Then duck. Here’s comes the fall out. Happy Wife Happy Life. Translation: The Wife calls the shots. Happy Wife. Happy Life: The man acquiesces.