Ok, I am new to the $1250+ cartridge scene. Are my expectations too high? Do others here who have purchased carts at this price+ find that other manufacturers also have QC issues and/or inconsistent shipping and packaging policies?Your expectations are not high. I don't care if the cartridge was $250, $1250 or in your case, $1900. If you buy a new item, you have every right to expect it to be NEW, properly sealed, in perfect working order and especially with a straight cantilever. Anything less IMO is not new and someone is passing you a used, demo or open box item. I would return this second cartridge immediately.
I am a little confused though. Did you buy these two defective cartridges direct from Ortofon or from a dealer. You mention Ortofon USA and later you say a retailer. In any event, I would demand a full refund and not buy a third one from them. They may have a bad batch. Two grand is too much money to risk for a third time.