Overlap can be dealt with via the phase control on the subwoofer amp.
I recently set up a system where the mains had a muddy bottom end but we didn't have a suitably high-quality highpass filter to roll off their bottom end. So I overlapped with the subs and put the subs out-of-phase with the mains. This not only resulted in a good blend and pretty much eliminated the buddy bass of the mains, but subjectively it seemed to clean up the rest of the spectrum of the mains a bit as well. I can't explain why.
We did use measurements to get it dialed in; would have been difficult by ear.
Duke
I recently set up a system where the mains had a muddy bottom end but we didn't have a suitably high-quality highpass filter to roll off their bottom end. So I overlapped with the subs and put the subs out-of-phase with the mains. This not only resulted in a good blend and pretty much eliminated the buddy bass of the mains, but subjectively it seemed to clean up the rest of the spectrum of the mains a bit as well. I can't explain why.
We did use measurements to get it dialed in; would have been difficult by ear.
Duke