Thanks for your your input, @blindjim . All good suggestions.
Here's an update; I have some extra absorbtion panels that I built, so I tried various positioning behind the speakers and on side walls. The minimal approach is still the best for imaging, 2 panels only. I have a tapestry and wall hangings behind me for standing waves. As I stated before, it's a living room.
The Tung Sol did become less aggressive at about 200 hrs, but still a forward presentation. I replaced the Mullard NOS drivers with Brimar cv4003's and soundstage is now wider and deeper, (love them ). I think I can live with this.
Also tried Bugle Boy as input gain, but too much "sting" at the top. The Amperex Orange sound interesting, have never tried them.
As far as PC's, I have all Audience and one PS Audio which are all laid-back. Very happy with them.
I'll look into Orange tubes for preamp or amp input stage, and after next paycheck maybe different EL34s.