Assuming you've properly enabled the link functions on your 390s, the only trick to this is to make sure you have your CAT5 cable plugged into the 390's master/slave out port and into the 380's slave port. The 390 MUST be the master in the chain or nothing will work.
If you have your cable plugged in correctly, and if you are using standard category 5 patch cables (pin-to-pin, straight thru), you should have no problems. I say should, because everyone I know usually runs into some problem with this when they set their system up.
When I had reached my wit's end, Madrigal suggested that after I had enabled the link functions on the 390s and attached the com cables, to power off the 390 and unplug the 380. Then power up the 390 and plug in the 380 (in that order). The resulting cold-boot is supposed to re-establish communication. As it turned out, my problem was a bad patch cable to the power amp, but you might want to try this if nothing else works.
Also, if the power amp doesn't powerup automatically when you turn the preamp on, I found out that I had to put the amp into on mode manually (by pressing the button) with the preamp on the first time. THEN when I powered the preamp off, the amp switched off as well.