I think you are simply combining components that are all biased to be very technical, detailed, forward, to use a few terms used in reviews. You will have to decide what to swap with a laid back component to bring the system back toward being balanced. I don't know how loud you like it, but the louder you want to play, the physically larger the speaker will need to be, in general, to avoid pushing the speaker out of it's sweet spot.
A couple of brands that are 'laid back' but still sound good are PSB and the bipolar towers by Definitive Technologies. Both are pleasant, good detail, but without that etching high range so many speakers have.
A couple of brands that are 'laid back' but still sound good are PSB and the bipolar towers by Definitive Technologies. Both are pleasant, good detail, but without that etching high range so many speakers have.