I've had a SLP05 for a few years now (at least three, if I remember correctly) with the Ultimate Upgrade, and I love the sound of mine. I'd go so far to say as it may have been the most significant upgrade I ever made. Unlike you, I am not finding mine to be sweet/warm/colored . . . if anything I find it to be a tad more neutral than I might like, but the detail and imaging I hear with it in my system makes up for that (for me).
I have rolled a few rectifier tubes and I, honestly, cannot say for sure I heard any difference. I've had a Mullard 5AR4 in there for a while now. The tubes I've heard the biggest difference with are the two balanced input tubes. I've had a few I liked (a pair of KenRads a generous individual bestowed on me) a pair of Tunsol VT231s I liked a lot, I loved a pair of black glass RCA VT231s for the precise detail that I thought they brought out. At the moment I have a pair of "'52 Sylvania Bad Boys" (6sn7s) (that were described to me as the "Iron Fist") in those sockets and as of now they are my favorites. Another generous individual turned me on to those two Sylvanias also gave me a pair of National Union 6F8G that he described as "The Velvet Glove" and I like them, but for different reasons than I like the "Iron Fists." If you decide to try 6F8Gs, you will need adapters.
Good luck. I hope you can get that pre to do what you want it to do for you. People have different goals and expectaions from their gear, and, as I just typed, I hope you can meet yours.