Elizabeth
Hmmmm.... it sounds like there sure were some problems. Are you sure it was sex, or was it that the music itself was bad instead?? ;-))
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Music for me is more the dedicated event. Casual or background listening for myself can be any noise. TV... News.... some TV info shows like you'll see on PBS, DISC, TLC, Smithsonian, History, etc.
Normally I have one of those on in the background, unless it's time to dig some music.
the only music I'll play for background or atmosphere is tied to entertaining, dining, dating, or intimate convos. When or IF it becomes time to get busy... I'll kill the music. it plays only when or if, 'she' wants it on.
A very very, small percentage of the time, I'll have some classical playing in the background when doing anything requiring real focus.
I guess I can ignore TV better than I can ignore music.