Just sayin... There are many brick & mortar high-end dealers who will let you try gear at home. Some are more accommodating than others. You've got to ask (or sometimes beg, cajole, etc.).
This is a big deal, because you have to hear gear in your system & room to REALLY 100% KNOW if you're going to like it... or end up selling it on Audiogon.
I don't have a lot of $$ and I hate re-selling anything, so I always try to hear it at home first if I can.