Agree that only way to make this happen is for the seller to mark the item paid; if they did not do a pre-pay on the fees, they'll then be assessed. Otherwise there is no way to make this happen. Overall, the approach freddy50 has taken is very risky....for all intensive purposes the transaction does not exist. If something goes wrong, no protection.
Leaving feedback
How does one leave feedback if you paid seller by wire transfer outside of agon site? I didn't officially enter offer and seller didn't officially accept as we were texting back n forth. Deal is done and everyone is happy.