Brimac, you raise some good questions and unfortunately no one can give you a real definitive answer except to say you need to try a lot of different combinations and go with what sounds best to your ears.
I have gotten some very good results using small blocks of hardwoods between components and shelves; and the Source Shelf that I have my turntable sitting on sounds good with a combination of Sorbothane pucks at the rear and one small hardwood block at center front. I'm using the Sorbothane because I'm on a suspended floor, otherwise I'd use hard materials (either wood blocks or BDR cones) all the way around.
In some applications I find the hardwood blocks are preferable to BDR cones, with the woodblocks sounding very similar through the bass and midrange, but less tizzy in the high frequencies. VanEvers used to sell a woodblock kit, but I don't know if it's still available. I've had good success with cocobolo, mahogany, and tiger-eye (in no particular order).
Sometimes you also need to consider the stability of the component; if you push a button and it goes sliding toward the edge, well, that's a problem. :)
I have gotten some very good results using small blocks of hardwoods between components and shelves; and the Source Shelf that I have my turntable sitting on sounds good with a combination of Sorbothane pucks at the rear and one small hardwood block at center front. I'm using the Sorbothane because I'm on a suspended floor, otherwise I'd use hard materials (either wood blocks or BDR cones) all the way around.
In some applications I find the hardwood blocks are preferable to BDR cones, with the woodblocks sounding very similar through the bass and midrange, but less tizzy in the high frequencies. VanEvers used to sell a woodblock kit, but I don't know if it's still available. I've had good success with cocobolo, mahogany, and tiger-eye (in no particular order).
Sometimes you also need to consider the stability of the component; if you push a button and it goes sliding toward the edge, well, that's a problem. :)