face it - "supurb" sound will NOT happen w/ in-wall speakers. maybe *ok* sound, maybe even *pretty good* sound. NOT "supurb" sound. if you really want supurb sound, you will have *other* personal issues that only *you* can figure out how to manage - good luck! i suggest explaining to your wife that you aren't gonna waste all this money, etc., for a dedicated room, and *NOT* be able to have excellent sound - you're *gonna* get real speakers, even if she doesn't like it. now, the ball's in *her* court...
Invisible Speakers
I need speakers for a home theatre system. I am having an addition built to house the home theatre system. We are having cabinets built to house the electronics. My wife tells me that she doesn't want see any wires or speakers. My only requirement for the speakers is that they have superb sound. I will have a pair of subs so extreme low end isn't required. Money really isn't a problem. Any ideas or suggestions short of murder or divorce are welcome.