@bipod72 as @ghdprentice noted, whilst appreciating your primary interest in the Billie, looking at the costs of others you noted such as the PS Audio one for potential consideration might be the NAD C399. It has a just about everything uprated from the C3050. Which was why I bought one for my Daughter and Son-in-law for a Wedding gift and seems to tick a lot of your boxes, apart from the tube point of the billie, but perhaps a tube stage later if you use/go MC could give options.
It has 180W/ch continuous (250 peak) hypex so power wise your speaker upgrade is well catered for and the Hypex modules stand up relatively well in my Trinnov Amps for musicality when I have tried them against my Vitus SS103. The NAD built in phono stage has had some highly complementary reviews as noted at https://www.theabsolutesound.com/articles/nad-c399-hybrid-digital-dac-amplifier/ stating quietest phono stages he had heard below a $29k separate and better than he had heard integrated outside his Mcintosh C53. But an AV forums review was a bit less enthusiastic on the stage, but didn't give the amp less than 9/10 in any category.
As it was 'boxed for present' and they live a 100 miles away I haven't listened to it alongside my Whest MC Ref's or Titan Pro II. But on their system Project X2, with both an Ortofon 2M blue and even more with an LVB 2M black it sounded very good, both with and without the option of built in Dirac, which is another bonus if you would consider / want room correction, there are two MDC module slots with the BLUOS-D that has the Dirac taking it from quoted $1999 for the amp with MM etc to $2598 with the module, but it can be added later.
If you are MC on the phono the review above was complementary of it with a quicksilver SUT. Personally I have not been able to find an SUT+MM into any of my pre's that get near a Whest 30 SE or above. If you are or might go MC there are guys on here who could recommend SUT's. But if vinyl is your prime source and you are/ will be going MC I personally would be considering MC Stages with a Whest on the audition list as I have put mine through a 25 year old Sony integrated that was designed for SACD and notwithstanding limited power the capability of that as a source shone through, but that is if you were considering a different path and others mileage will no doubt differ and as noted, you could go tube phono.
The C399 has a built in headphone amp which I note you wanted. And my son-in-law reports the Apt-X Bluetooth (which I believe is 2 way) is certainly the best source he has heard into bluetooth headphones when he is outside.
So MM whilst stage could be the limiting factor, it is with a lot of integrated amps. But seems to meet enough of your requirements that a listen could be worthwhile.