You mid-fi stuff is really excellent!! At one time I thought the Kappa 9's were the best value in HIFI meaning the most drivers and woofer square inches for the buck. Congrats!
To measure with your multimeter you need a signal generator as well. Generate singals from 20 hz to 20Khz (very low power though!! (don't kill the tweeters)) and measure the voltage drop over a 2 ohm series resistor (which gives you current and knowing v=ir you can figure it all out). You will be able to calcualte the impedance per frequency and graph it as well. This will tell you the problem frequencies with low impedance.
From your post, you appear to be getting the program. I recommend to you to give up on your plans. Go high-end. Get a good amplifier and CD player and cables and eventually new speaks (no!). I bet a BAT or Classe or Krell or Ayre with a 24/96 cd player would sound better than the proposed system. You would also not be stuck with more midfi when you decide to upgrade.
good luck and keep trying!