Where did OP go? Did he/she not stick around because of the less than supportive responsive comments at first? Still being a newb with only a couple hundred posts compared with others in the thousands, I can relate. Early on I may have sometimes come away miffed that something I posted was met with criticism or ridicule. In those moments I had a choice, ether fade away or keep plowing ahead in a form I generally enjoy, in a hobby I truly love.
one of my dads legacies to me and my brother was he taught us how to sail. We as a family have hundred of hours of amazing memories. My dad’s sailboat was pretty stout, slow and made up of rigging and gear that was either well worn or found second hand. Did that in any way decrease our enjoyment? Absolutely not! There were several of of my dad’s friends who had the latest Jboats, with all the high dollar gear. They used to try and get under my dad’s skin about how much faster or better their boats were. Didn’t bother my dad one bit. And this was back in the day when someone actually had to have the guts to say it right to his face 😜.
He was in love with the experience, not the gadgets. And I would argue just as good under sail as anyone. He had a saying that I use all the time, and it’s applicable in many situations. “If your house falls down, do you blame he hammer or the carpenter?”
I guess my point is I know what music i like, what I like about my system, and just enjoy the process and AG. I try and do the next right thing, treat others with kindness, and if I dont have anything nice to say, I say nothing.