Since you have a CD player and a DVD player you could split your systems. One system for 2 channel and the other for HT. Since you have another room this might work. You will need speakers that sound good with 2 channel music and for a starter you could pick up some used monitors in the $200-$400 range such as these:
NHT Super One
Mission 780
B&W 601 S2
To make the best of these speakers you would need decent speaker stands and you would be giving up bass response for the time being. The only other pieces you would need would be a good integrated amplifier or pre/amp combination, another set of speaker cables and some type of shelf to hold the equipment. The Primare 30.1 appears to be a good entry level (to high-end) integrated that could also be used as a 2 channel pre-amp later. I was looking at Primare myself, but there was no dealer in my area so I went with something else. If you want something very inexpensive and used you could look at these integrated amps:
Creek 4330
Arcam Diva A65
Kyocera
Audiolab
With these choices, I think you could put together a completely separate 2 channel system for music listening and stay close to you budget. The system would not have a lot of power or deep bass response, but could be quite enjoyable. This would give you a start and could be upgraded in pieces. I think this would be a good option since it seems like your HT system is pretty well set and is enjoyable for you. Also, as you are finding out, upgrading your HT system to work better for 2 channel with the equipment you have is problematic.
NHT Super One
Mission 780
B&W 601 S2
To make the best of these speakers you would need decent speaker stands and you would be giving up bass response for the time being. The only other pieces you would need would be a good integrated amplifier or pre/amp combination, another set of speaker cables and some type of shelf to hold the equipment. The Primare 30.1 appears to be a good entry level (to high-end) integrated that could also be used as a 2 channel pre-amp later. I was looking at Primare myself, but there was no dealer in my area so I went with something else. If you want something very inexpensive and used you could look at these integrated amps:
Creek 4330
Arcam Diva A65
Kyocera
Audiolab
With these choices, I think you could put together a completely separate 2 channel system for music listening and stay close to you budget. The system would not have a lot of power or deep bass response, but could be quite enjoyable. This would give you a start and could be upgraded in pieces. I think this would be a good option since it seems like your HT system is pretty well set and is enjoyable for you. Also, as you are finding out, upgrading your HT system to work better for 2 channel with the equipment you have is problematic.