Thanks for the responses, guys. I posted this in a leisurely part of a vacation that quickly turned busy. Ordered a passive volume control, but after playing with the stereo more upon returning home (volume control still having not arrived), I have come to the conclusion I have accumulated a mish-mosh of equipment with questionable synergy, if any. Learning a ton as I go, here.
And you're right, @erik_squires , the Infinity impedance curve is gnarly. I knew this going into it, but their sound really moved me, and it still does. I've been buying equipment around the speakers, and that's probably the worst possible idea with the K9s. There are aftermarket crossovers, and considered that in the past, but it's not really my forte, nor enjoyable.
So I'm sort of at a crossroad, as @czarivey suggests. For a while I had been kicking around the idea of selling everything and starting over, and that's where I've landed. Need to rip off the Band-Aid, take the bath, and move on.
Thanks again,
Richard