I think many are really insincere in advocating it, in that they would not pay any attention unless it supported their belief that there are no differences.
Tbg, probably true in some cases, although I can't think what benefit there is to that way of thinking. How about if we turn it around like this; I think many are really insincere in advocating it is USELESS, in that they would not pay any attention unless it supported their belief that there ARE differences. For this line of thinking I can see benefits.
I'm not here to tell you your ears are wrong. I'm not here asking for proof of something that isn't provable either.
What I have a problem with are words such as "substantial" when describing different tweaks. If I were to hear a substantial difference I expect I could identify that difference. I have two pairs of speakers that are sometimes set up at the same time. I can tell from another room which speakers are playing because the difference in their sound is substantial.
As for your last sentence, if I responded sincerely this post would not get through.