I'll second remotecentral.com. It's could be renamed: remotecontrolgon.com. It's more forum oriented than this site--but very informative. The one that has been in the lead for a while is the Phillips Pronto Pro. However, there's a new kid on the block (well the kid isn't that new but the product is). Sony has a really slick looking remote that allows you to program everything from the button jpegs to many macros. I think they are trying to give Phillips a run for their money--and they probably will. In 2 years or so, I think all this will go away, and everything will be controlled from wifi handhelds--but you probably don't want to wait that long.
Best Universal Remote?
Looking to get a nice universal remote. I was using the one that came with my b&K Ref20, but it's getting tired. There was one that you download commands from the internet. I am using a Mac computer too.