best phono preamps?

Best for what? When you go for a very low output MC and you need high gain, I think, a transistor is the way to go (Klyne 7 for example, a good sounding unit, not so dead like most others out there).
Or you can live with 55-60dB gain, here you can go with tubes without any troubles (noise etc.), Lamm LP2 is uncolored and easy to live with.

Just bought the Art Audio Vinyl Reference. Wow what a difference that made in my system. One of the best I've heard.

Hands down best I have heard, (do not own) is Doshi Aalps (sp?). I have not heard any of the above except the Steelhead, at a show, which is also VERY impressive.

ASR Basis Exclusive. It belongs in the top class.

The best i have heard is Kondo Japan Phono M7 (dedicate phono only)

Einstein Turntable's Choice is a must audition phono stage if you are after the best.

You might want to check out the Allnic-1200 or
they have 2 more higher end models.
the 1200 goes for i believe 1800.00(tubes).

Has anyone heard the Lyra Connoisseur 4-2L SE?

I heard the Manley Steelhead and was blown away. Next is the Art Audio Vinyl Reference, which is arguably a better value (as it is much cheaper).