We divorced after 23 years. I drew up the agreement we both came up with including child support amounts. We remain cordial.
What surprised me is how long it took to become myself again, if that's even possible. After a year, I thought I was over it. Same for the following nine years.
My only advice is take your time and learn to live alone. Ten years later, I'm a good cook, keep a good house, am financially stable, and have an awesome redhead. Had I met her three years ago, we would not have been a good match.
Sorry for your pain. I wish I had a quick fix for you, but in my case it took awhile. I had fun along the way, but I held off major decisions until the dust settled.
gary
What surprised me is how long it took to become myself again, if that's even possible. After a year, I thought I was over it. Same for the following nine years.
My only advice is take your time and learn to live alone. Ten years later, I'm a good cook, keep a good house, am financially stable, and have an awesome redhead. Had I met her three years ago, we would not have been a good match.
Sorry for your pain. I wish I had a quick fix for you, but in my case it took awhile. I had fun along the way, but I held off major decisions until the dust settled.
gary