I only bias mine every 4 months or so. It usually isn't off by much if at all. Make sure you wear gloves and a ground strap, have eye protection, and use rubber encased test leads. There is a LOT of voltage in that amp.
I find that I prefer the Svetlana KT88 tubes to the 6550's, but some people are the reverse. The KT88 is warmer and punches out the midrange. The 6550 is a little more clear and is completely coherent from top to bottom.
If you do buy from a non-ARC source, make sure they match the tubes very closely, and understand that these are for a vt100. Kevin Deal at upscaleaudio is the guy I use - he's a little more expensive, but I feel the quality of expertise is worth it. I understand the vt100 needs to have very closely matched tubes to function properly.
There are quite a few factors determining the tube life:
1. How often you turn the amp on or off
2. The loudness of music
3. Use of a surge protector/dirty electricity,
4. Tube quality to start with.
5. Ventilation of the amp.
6. (most important) the efficiency of your speakers.
If you are running magnepans, you will burn the tubes
up FAST.
7. How hot you run the tubes. I run mine at the recommended settings, but I have heard that you can extend tube life by biasing a little lower.