Magfan - I don't listen to sinewaves either, I find it a little boring.
If the goal is to measure RMS power delivered than standard RMS meters will be probably useless. They don't measure well at high frequencies and they have limited crest factor. Since RMS is defined as DC that produce equivalent heat perhaps measuring temperature will be more accurate (resistor in series?). I wonder myself if there are any professional power meters that measure music power accurately. I'm not sure how important it is.
As for Zobel in D-class - many people complain about it. Yes it will be damaged with prolonged exposure above certain frequency but it will never happen in real live.
I would say that average power that amp can deliver is not of use. I want to know how much peak power (or peak current) amp can deliver. 80V supplied 1kW Icepower (1000ASP) can deliver about 40A on 2 ohm load for about a second and that is very impressive (3.2kW). At 10kHz its output power is limited to 200W but this would make person deaf and I don't know of any tweeter that can take continuous 200W (more like 20W max). In real life average music power that tweeter receives is a fraction of a Watt. The most important is match, that you mentioned. My experience is limited, but from what I'm reading certain amps just "like" certain speakers more than others.