I solved this by not reading forums and dropping out of my audiophile club. I don't read blogs or reviews either. I glance at the weekly audiogon summary and will sometimes look at a conversation if the title is interesting.
Seriously, the press part is trying to sell you something and that's based on sewing discontent. The forums are all about, I don't know what actually, but the comparison and upmanship doesn't help.
I settled on a small power tube and efficient speakers because I like it for the low volumes we listen at augmented with absurdly large subs. I'm 55 and can't hear over 13 khz anyways so highs don't matter.
Stop reading this stuff and you'll find that you chill out a lot about your system. Like all social media it's a trap that makes us feel sad and poor.