Since you are not seeking really high performance for 2-channel operation, I would suggest going with a Surround Sound Receiver (Denon, B&K 502 S2, others). You can get a very good used one for well under your budget. At your budget, I just don't think you are going to see a whole lot of improvement by going to a seperate pre/pro and amp(s). Additionally, the receiver approach is looked upon very favorably for wives and kids that may also be looking to use the system.
As for a high definition DVD player? Get it now and get an Oppo. With your budget you can get a good receiver and for about $250 more get the top of the line Oppo for well under your budget. I recommend running the Oppo's HDMI directly to the TV, but I guess this depends on the number of video sources you have.
As for a high definition DVD player? Get it now and get an Oppo. With your budget you can get a good receiver and for about $250 more get the top of the line Oppo for well under your budget. I recommend running the Oppo's HDMI directly to the TV, but I guess this depends on the number of video sources you have.