About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone


Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
paul_frumkin

Showing 28 responses by raytheprinter

Barb,Thanks for sharing the pictures!Best wishes to you and your loved ones.Ray
wonderfull news concerning your meds Pat,glad to hear your tolerating it so well,,
glad you folks had fun in miami,i grew up there,way back when south beach was a low rent area,,,becareful; a little cafe goes a long way,,,i really miss the food ,culture and esp. Latin women!!!!
hey Pat,so glad your feeling good,,if i ever have to go back on chemo,ill shave my head,and save a lot of time cleaning hair up ,esp. in the bathtub!!!my apt. looked like a st.bernard lived in it !all kidding aside,hope things continue to go well!!!!!!!
hello Pat,thanks for the kind words,im a newby to classical,not really sure what to buy to get a good intro to classical music,
Have fun guys!!! Do come back with some tales to tell!! Pat, dont get in too much trouble!!!!!!
Boy,,,it sure sounds like you guys had a great time!!!!!!!!Pat,seems like your living a fuller life than most folks without your worries,,,Right on Brother,geez,showing my age with those last 3 words,,,im glad things are going well!!you have a little slice of heaven on earth,,,,an endless supply of audio buddys!
Pat,Your in my thoughts,,,so is "Our House"i have not thought of that song in years,,it does paint quite a picture,,thanks
If Lance were to visit Pat he probably be a confirmed audiophile from that day on!Pat ,i hope your feeling well,,Ray
Happy b-day Pat,im really glad your having good days!And i hope they continue,,,,,,but i have to 2nd Albertporters request,,LOL!! Ray
always wondered what you looked like!You sure look happy in that plane,thanks for sharing the photo!Go LANCE!!!
LOL,Dav and Sean,you guys are too much he he,,Congrads Pat,baby Lugnut,,,hmm it does have a nice ring to it!
Geez Howard,at least wait untill Pats gone before you snag his TT,,,Hope you all have a good visit!Peace and love,Ray
Hello Barb,Id like to welcome you,and please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.I will try to come up with a suggestion or two to name the little one,seems like pets all have thier own personalitys,let us know a little about how she is!Ive read so many wonderful things about you ,from Pat and friends.Love to all of you,Ray
Pat ,Im so glad that you are recieving some comfort,rest,and plenty of love(and rootbeer)!All my love , prayers and thoughts are with you,Barb and you gene pool,Ray
Barb,I sure hope Pat is able to have some comfort and rest tonight,,,my heart,prayers and love is with you all.Ray
Barb,I was feeling pretty low , in an email Pat sent me he said;"Be glad for me when this is over.Realize that ive had a pretty incredible life,did it my way and luckily suffered enough trials along the way to prepare me for this.It doesnt get much better than this"i felt very peaceful after reading this,Pats no longer in pain,ill never forget Pat,He is one of the rare people whos light shined bright enough to warm everyone around him,even over the internet and miles away i could feel his loving and caring nature,his passion and love of life is something that will be with me as long as i live!My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones,i will enjoy a day of music and remember Pat Sunday,Thank you,Ray
Hello Barb,Now that ive seen the puppy,Gracie seems to fit her perfectly!She looks like she has a sweet disposition.Ray
Hello Greg,I think of Pat often and hope Barb and family are doing well.I didnt know him as well as some,but he was the kind of guy that made you feel like an old friend in short time! Ray
I was thinking about Pat- aka- Lugnut ,while listening to Doc & Merle Watson,"Southbound" on vinyl of course!I Like to come back and spend a little time reading parts of this thread at times,usually when I could use some moral support ,renew my faith that most people are good and do good things that are from the heart when called upon.Sometimes it takes some doing to bring it out in us,but I think it is in a majority of us. Pat did bring out the best in so many, at what was a very painful time in his life. He did so with much grace.I did not know him as well as some here, who were very close to and were able to visit Pat He was the kind of soul that you felt you have known for years after a short time.Well thats it,just remembering Lugnut.