About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone


Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
paul_frumkin

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Hi all,
I have been watching this thread for a while and I am really embarrased that I haven't posted until now. I can only hope that I would handle myself any where close to how Pat is. And for the rest of you, I can only feel proud to be in the club. Your support is amazing and I get tears in my eyes everyday that I read more.
Pat I would love to send you a "care package", but I don't have any classical. Lots of blues, rock and big band. If any of those interest you, I would be more than happy to send a nice mix.
Jeff
Good afternon Mr.Lugnut, I am very happy to learn that you enjoy some of the same music as I do. I am somewhat envious of you, who wouldn't want to take a listen to the famous Porter Audio System? Albert could probably charge admission. I hope your day is going well and you have time to sit back and listen to some tunes.
what are some of your favorites? right now I am listing to(and I can't get enough of)Jay McShan, really great stuff. And then it starts branching out to guys that he is playing with, such as Gerry Mulligan. Does it ever stop? And then you have another favorite of mine, Johnny Hodges, again there goes another tree. Duke and how many people did he have through his career? I am really just a beginner in all of the big band blues thing, I have liked the style all of my life but I thought it was rock. Now looking back some of my favorites have been blues related, Stones, Climax Blues(duh), Savoy Brown and of course Eric Clapton. It has been just the past few years getting into 'high end" that I have ventured out of rock. I was just telling my wife, Colleen, the other day "I can't believe that I am actually listening to Mel Torme and enjoying it"
Sorry, I didn't mean to write a book, I am normally a one liner.
Later,
Jeff
How was your week? This thread's been kind of quiet, everyone must be busy this spring. I sent you a piece of vinyl, it should arrive to you early next week. I cleaned it with Mr Frumkin's solutions, but there are still a few ticks and pops here and there. The music makes it worth while though. Is that new cart broken in yet?
Paul,
Contratulations on getting some recognition. I am looking forward to seeing Albert's pictures.
take care'
jeff
"all paths lead to nowhere, that it is the journey that matters!"
Well said Artg. It's just so sad that it takes so long for some of us to realize this.
Pat,
Please keep sharing, we are here to listen. I just wish we could do something to help.

Jeff
Pat,
Happy Fathers Day to you. I don't have any offspring myself. We had two "boys" Patches and Merlin. They were Papillions, 16 years old. My wife and I had to put them down about six weeks ago. Hardest thing I have ever had to do, it brings tears to my eyes, just to type this.
I am very impressed, I could not keep up with a couple of two year olds, like you are doing. Although I am sure that you are enjoying every second of it.
You seem to be more active than me and I am training for my 3rd marathon.
Again happy Fathers Day
Jeff
Pat,
Where are you? Still recovering from the little ones? We need an update. Hope things are good.

Jeff
I am a man of few words, a few very close friends. But now I feel like I belong to a big family that has come together in support of one another. I am in awe of all of you and I am thankful to be a part of this family.

Jeff
Loony,
It looks like your in need of a turntable.(just kidding) No I'm not.

You said it all..very well

Jeff
I truly don't know what to say, but I feel a need to show that I am here for you.
God Bless

Jeff
Hi Barb,
Very cute puppy, almost as cute as our "Honey". She is a mix of Papilion and American Eskimo. I have pictures that I will e-mail directly to you.
I am very sorry to hear of Pat's passing. You have my sincere condolences. Pat was one of a kind, which probably means that he married one. I admire you both.