About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone


Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
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I was amazed on several occasions when Pat told me that he would not trade away his experience for his waning health. So many hang onto what they cannot keep.

Jim Elliot once said "He is not fool who gives up what he connot keep, to gain that which he cannot loose." Jim Elliot was murdered by the Auca indians in South America that he came to help. He and his friends had guns and could have defended themselves, but for the benefit of the killers, they did not.

Pat has blazed a trail that everyone eventually follows, but few of us have really considered. He did it with bravery and dignity, through the grace of God. He will never see these words, but nonetheless, I offer my thanksgiving, for living and dying like a man, a great man. I will miss Pat, but I plan to see him again!
There has been talk about a memorial to our beloved Lugnut. The idea that Davt mentioned has been discussed before. I don't know if anyone is interested in this, but it would be nice to see something set up to maintain the presence or memory of Pat Malone here on AudiogoN.

If people are interested in doing this, or have other suggestions, perhaps another thread could be started to get the ball rolling. Any ideas Paul, or others who have been so faithful in posting and caring for Pat?
Barb, I'm glad to hear you decided on Gracie. A tribute to the past, as well as a reminder of the grace Pat has experienced.

I will be spinning Praire Wind this afternoon along with Amused to Death. At first blush it seems inappropriate, but Roger Waters deals with some very complex themes, including, tragic loss, and that many people have trivialized their own lives as well as human life in general.

Pat on the other hand understood the importance of this life, as preparation for the next.

Pat, we're not tailgating, we're drafting! Thanks for leading the way. Barb, you are no less in my prayers today than you were last week.
FWIW, Barb had a little trouble getting the system working on Sunday when everyone was scheduled to visit. Vetterone went over and got everything working. Hey Vetterone, thanks for helping!
Thank you Barb, It was fun seeing a picture of Pat, and Gracie too. You're still in my prayers...
Kirsten, thanks for being here. I have enjoyed your input. I'm sure it's hard for Barb in general, and specifically to maintain a presence here.

I got a kick out of thread earlier when you mentioned the Eleanor McEvoy. I wasn't sure if Pat liked the LP but appearently it went over okay.

I had the pleasure to talk with Pat a lot of times before his passing. We talked about Barb, and his concerns for her, and about his beloved daughters. He told me he was proud of you for your maturity and independence. I'm not trying to blow smoke, or whatever since I doubt that I will ever meet you, but I want to be sure you know what he shared with me.

All of us take regrets to our graves, but we also have a heart full of things about which we take a lot of pride and joy.

Pat took pride in the fact of who you are.

PS and I'm glad you're here sharing with us.
Ben --- I haven't been around here much the last few months and was not aware of the good news. I hope Benjamin Patrick Campbell has all the good qualities that were possessed by our dearly missed, and good friend, Pat.

Barb, if you lurk here, You haven't fallen out of my prayers!
Ben - I'd check for exhaust modifications, and perhaps some intake adjustments. If you check one day and he's running a little rich you'll know for sure... : )
I was thinking about my friend Patrick and also about Barb today... Now I'm also reminded of Benjamin Patrick Campbell... how is the little feller?

Barb, I look at the pictures you sent and remember the time I spent with Lugnut and with you, and I remember them fondly! Thank you...

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I raise my glass! Thanks for the reminder Steve... it's gone by so fast, but in the end it's people that matter not events, or toys.

I couldn't even tell you the contents of my system two years ago, but I remember, and love the same friends I had on that sad day!

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I just read through this entire thread again for the first time in years. I laughed and cried. It was great to see how people came together to support a guy most had never met.

I have reminders of Pat in my music room and still think of him from time to time, but I wish it were more often. A lot of the emotional proximity we experienced those years ago is gone, which is another shame. Thanks again to everyone who was there for everyone else, not just Pat.