a first integrated amp to build a system around

I don't know if this is the right place to ask this question but I can't find a better one. So here it goes...

I have done some research trying to find the best amp/speaker/cd combo to build my first system.

My requirements are
total system cost < $2000
phono input
amp with good DAC for iPod/computer input
disc player recognizes HDCDs

I have a list of components but have no idea how to start narrowing it down or finding the right pairings. I almost certainly cannot go out and listen to all of these so I need to narrow my options before I go out and start listening. Starting with an integrated amp seems like a reasonable thing to do. Can you help me make my lists shorter?

Here are my lists of components:

Integrated Amp:
NAD D 3020
PS Sprout
Outlaw RR2150
Music Hall a15.3

Speakers:
Emotiva Airmotiv 4s
Direct Acoustics Silent Speakers II
others?

Disc Player:
OPPO BDP 103
Music Hall c-dac15.3