did my wife harm my speakers?

You have nothing to worry about with those Revels. You, also, answered your own question. "They sound fine." If, in 5 years down the road, you have difficulty with those speakers, you'll know who to blame..

Given all the threads here about WAF, or wife acceptance factor, I don't know if it's such a good idea to start blaming your wife for anything that goes wrong with your stereo.

I found this out the hard way recently when I blamed her for something that was actually caused by an electrical spike. Don't you just love the taste of Rockports in the morning?

Then again, you could be going for the guilt factor. As in, honey, you BROKE it. Now we have to get a NEW one.

Either way, it's a mine field I'd rather not tread. :o)

You guys are funny. I will like to hear from the wife!!!

She is still not talking to me after i yelled at her.

So Can High volume "blow" or damage a speaker?
Is there anything like a fuse in them to protect them?
what would happen to my Revels if they got to much power?

Run a test disc and check your frequency levels - easy way to tell if all drivers are ok.