Sensitive ears to speakers. Help!!!


I have been going crazy trying to get a great sounding system. The problem that I have is that very detailed speakers make my ears go crazy. The more detail I get the happier I am turning the equipment off. Some people tell me that I am sensitive to metal dome tweeters. That I should go with other types of tweeters. Does anybody else experience this same feeling???
jel
For all you soft dome addicts, listen to an Avalon speaker and tell me they're hard on the ears. Front ends make the difference in most any speaker, soft or metal dome. Garbage in, garbage out.
Yeah, I guess I better just learn more of what's out there, then. I know who manufactures the Avalon drivers, do you?
make sure the problem isnt one of driving the speakers with an underpowered amplifier. The waveforms being distorted create objectionable harmonics.