As far as turning the bass down a bit you might try a simpler solution first, just to see how it works... I'm referring to something along the lines of the Ultimate Attenuators... (Google it) They are available in both single ended and xlr and might be just what you need.
http://www.tweakaudio.com/Ultimate%20Attenuators.html
Check it out. Good luck.
http://www.tweakaudio.com/Ultimate%20Attenuators.html
Check it out. Good luck.