one should not take one extreme...rail against it...call it a norm... and display yourself to be virtuously elevated - as a comparison.
As that would be.... extremist and..well..designed from the ground up to create problems for yourself and everyone else.
So, the point here, as threads go....is??
I do understand where you are coming from.. and I think that, if the story and slant is accurate, then, well, the person might have different priorities than me..and....that might be a gentle way of saying it.
to relate..but..de-escalate.