WAF, Help, Need Strategy


Hello Folks.

Nee some suggestions or stratigies.

I just got back from the house im buying, was working on laying hardwood floors, picked out the paint, and ran cables for surround in the living room. (buying the house off of her mother who wants to move due to empty nest syndrome)
It is a modest 225,000 house in denver, (houses are expencive here) The living room is about 20ft by 20ft, big enough for the TV, AV rack, surround, couple couches, recliner, plants, whatever.

I was talking with the fiancee, and she said we could put one of the couches over in a spot that I had already decided my 2 channel system would go. I mentioned that and she rolled her eyes and gave me "The look"

I know some people like having a dedicated listening room, but I feel uncomfortable being tucked away, I like being in the main living area.

I don't want to integrate HT and 2 channel, and I'm making a lot of compromises.

The surround sound setup will use a Denon 2803/3803 and Definitive Technologys Promonitor 60 setup. Nice, small, easy to conceal, and it sounds pretty darn good too.

The 2 channel system will comprise Green Mountain Audio Europa's, a Krell 300 integrated, My DVD-A player, and possible down the road a nice small Rel Subwoofer.

Neither system will be very intrusive, Im already sold on the Europa's, cheap, excellent quality, and not too big.
The Krell 300IL is a nice looking piece of machinery as well. Plus it will match the walls.

Basically, ive given up on full range floorstanders, tried to choose equipment that would match the décor, and put a lot of thought into a system we could both enjoy.

She still aint buying into the idea though. I explained how it would match the décor, I explained both systems would do a good job of blending in with the room, and would not stand out and be imposing, but im still having a hard time getting this to fly.

Any suggestions?

How did you get the wife to accept the gear you wanted, in the room you wanted it? And tricks? Tips? Suggestions?
slappy
Maybe i should just tell her that I'm the man , the king of the castle, and things will be the way i want.

Im sure i can get the system sent to the hospital room as i recover.

hahahaha
Find some music she likes and play it for her using the components you want. My wife hated the Klipsch Cornwalls I bought last year until she heard her favorite Joni Mitchell album, Court and Spark.
Mostly I think it depends on how much she gets into the end result: good sound. My wife and I are just getting into the audiophile thing. About 6 months ago I broached the subject of a stereo upgrade, maybe some Paradigm Studio 40's. She had heard them before and liked them but the price tag seemed steep to her. We ended up doing some auditioning and before you know it our budget for front speakers jumped to 5k. She doesn't understand or care much about the gear but the end result is an easy sell. I just bought a MF Tri-Vista 21 DAC. She was worried, silently, that it would be a waste of money. We just hooked it up this weekend and she is very happy with it. I suppose the best suggestion is try to spark some passion for music and see where it takes you. I am already trying for several mini-systems in various rooms to try out new gear. So far, no major complaints.

Good luck
If there is a good compromise I haven't found it yet, that's why I'm in the basement. Maybe if I showered more often?!?

It's just not important enough to most people to do the crazy things required to get things to sound right. If you can't dazzle her with brilliance, baffle her with BS.
Slappy, I think that Electric Monk is most correct. Take her shopping for gear. Let her hear the differences between a cheap Bose system and what you want. I took my wife to look for a bigger TV and she wanted to buy a $10,000 50 inch plamsa TV. I couldn't justify/afford spending that kind of money, but she was ready to drop the cash. You could have knocked me over with a feather. She even told her friends about the TV. Jim