Play-back music listening will never be a lived event...
But acoustic and psycho-acoustical room control could do some miracles no change of amplifier or dac or even speakers so good they are will REPLACE...
Then i am ok with your post and observation but remember that all audio thread i ever read UNDERESTIMATE completely acoustic and psycho acoustic power...
The piano i listen to in my room is not the piano of the lived event... Trade-off choices by the recortding engineer make this impossible and to this we must add all the limitations related to our specific gear and room...
"Neutrality" concept like i already said here for example is an ENGINEERING concept not an acoustic and psycho-acoustic concept especially in SMALL room.... Our vocabulary is distorted by the way engineer tested their skills and products... Music come from specific gear yes, but more than that comes from specific room designed ONLY for specific speakers and in a small room designed BY AND FOR specific ears...A small room acoustic has nothing to do with a great hall acoustic...
Much is unknown or not well known in small room acoustic because great hall acoustic or amphiteather acoustic is millenias years old, small room acoustic is born only with personal audiophile system demands DECADES ago...Even acoustician debate about this between between themselves.. Why? because the use of optimal reverberation time and the timing of the first frontwaves for our two different ears, and the optimal balance between necessary reflections,diffusion and absorbtion in each location of the room, ask much for tailor-made and CUSTOM made solutions than standardized general ready made one....
In a SMALL room, the material acoustic properties content of the room, his geometry, his topology and the way the room react to the speakers for the specific ears of the owner are very complex phenomenon...It is the crux and key of audio experience, nevermind the cost and quality of the gear itself, acoustic matter at the same level than the choice of the amplifier or dac or speakers for sure....Especially in small room...
Acoustic is the sleeping princess and all the working pieces of gear are the 7 working dwarves... We kiss the princess with our ears to awake her to his true power....
By the way i am not a musician nor an acoustician, only a regular dude thinking how to create my own system at low cost by obligation...All of what i say is only my experience and opinion...Feel free to criticize or resize it more optimally...
As viber will attest to, the violins he is listening to from his best recordings, sound far from live. The body tone of the instruments, have been lost; the dynamics have been lost; the musicians positioning on a stage, have been lost ( all compared to an actual event ). Everything we listen to ( recorded ) is far from live. So I do the best I can to get all of this back, ( we all do ), but I listen for one specific thing more than any other. I listen to the musicians " playing / singing " ; to their " artistry "; to the " connection " between them, and me. This is beyond the tone, the space, the coherence ( whatever ), we are trying to capture. I am not sure many of you know what I am talking about, which if you do not, is very unfortunate. However I feel a handful of you, do. Anyway, I did not want to sound negative.....just realistic. Enjoy ! the holidays and all, be well. Always, MrD.