My baby left me... left me sad and bluuuuueee....

This is great you guys.....and I'm glad that we are all here for you Slappy. I went through it last year ''again' at 45 and it was all because I asked her for some help setting up ASC tube traps in my sound room......she ( after 1/2 years ) never understood my love for music.....was I at bars..no.... was I chasing skirts....no...was I golfing..no..should of been...it will pass, belive me. Anyway for the music.....there has been some real good choices floating around here....but I will suggest a song when you DO find another one.....''Handle Me With Care''...Traveling Wilbury's says it all. I have found that woemen are much easier at coming IN, then they are going Away......

John Lee Hooker, introducing "When My First Wife Left Me", at a show I attended, muttered under his breath, "She done me a favor".

Not really a blues song but a great after breakup song. Go to http://www.bobdylan.com/songs/positively.html

You and me both. "I FEEL you pain" (don't remember where that quote comes from but it cracks me up), and it seems from the responces everyone has at one time or another, and listened to the blues from someone who has from one time or another. And yet, while you are so not alone, you are alone.
My personal choices, van morrison, 'the healing game' and the happy/opposite follow up 'back on top'. Eric clapton's reptile has a lot of tunes that at a time did it for me. At another time, when delbert mcclinton sang, "I know it's over, but it ain't over yet" in 'blues as blues can get' from 'never been rocked enough'. Robert johnson is really big right now and I would caution you to STAY CLEAR of him because his lyrics could really f#!* you up and make things worse than they already are.
There is enough suggestions here that if you bought them all, you would run yourself broke again, and poetic in that there is so many to share in what we listen to from others and what they sing to us all. Somebody sings something that fits, but YOU have your own blues tune.
I am currently listening to music without words quite often, so I can just feel. I have recently discovered the classical on the radio. Feels real good.
I am on the other end, the one walking out the door, and perhaps can relate that it may not be over, maybe it is, but something is, somethings got to change. She is gone for now, maybe for good, but it is time for you to effect your change, because it is just you now. Time for your own tune, so I might also suggest perhaps moving your rig upstairs, buying new equipment, or whatever, implement the SAP. the "slappy approval facter".
Hope this helps.

"I Can See Clearly Now" sung by the Holly Cole Trio. Listen to it while viewing "Girlfriend of the Day" on the Maxim magazine website http://www.maximonline.com . The song "Dont't Worry, Be Happy" works great too, but do not know who sang it.

Keep in mind that if you Do let her back into your life, it will be under YOUR terms and conditions. No more opinions about the music system.