JohnK
You can say that everything audio is not real, that's not the point of this discussion.
Soundstage depth perception is completely real and best replicated with stereo mic pair recordings due to the phase / time arrival differences.
Our Binaural hearing is by design to locate sounds and judge their position and depth!
However I've come across many individuals who seem to have little to no function in this area and cannot hear phase differences, perhaps you fit in the category?
And that's the science
I've had clients who can't even hear what 180 degrees out of phase is !