My bud George and I discuss this sensitive topic regularly. He's a good dude, respects my stuff so long as I respect his.
Also depends on what I'm playing. He'll sit with me for a listen so long as I'm playing Steely Dan, or Bill Evans but will leave the room if Suicide Silence, Sanguisabogg, or The Melvins are on.
I did have a massive folded low end cab he used to like to sleep in.
I've been lucky I guess.